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The Soloist Lands in Paris

Nov 10, 2024

For the past few years, I’ve kept a list of places where I could envision living out my retirement. I kept up-to-date on the candidates. Every time I proposed an addition to or deletion from my list, my friends rolled their eyes.

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Unexpected Exile

November 16, 2024

I am grateful for having the frustrating, attention-demanding process of applying for a French visa as a distraction from the news…

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Serenity, or my search thereof

November 27, 2024

Snow is falling in slow motion silently outside the window of my temporary residence in Montparnasse. It’s a good day to be indoors — except for the fact that indoors is where all the bureaucratic and financial consequences of my decision to move to France have also taken up residence.

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Dénouements

December 3, 2024

The genial bank employee nodded his head. I pressed ‘submit’ on my phone. Two days late, my first month’s rent shot off toward its intended target, my new and understanding landlords. What feels like a heroic three-week battle came to a triumphant conclusion. Not only did I pay my rent, I also let an unfamiliar feeling sink in: I am solvent in France.

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Feeding myself in Paris

December 14, 2024

Billie lies on the floor next to her dog bed. Her snout is not pointed in my direction. Yet, I know every nerve sensor in her slightly wet nose is on red alert for the moment when I start cooking my dinner. Every afternoon, after she finishes her dinner, she grows impatient. She associates the end of her dinner with the start of mine…

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Dispossession

December 21, 2024

I ran my fingers across a white dinner plate with a Royal Blue garland looping around the broad rim. Little braille-like bumps between the garland’s loops slowed my hand as I examined the design. It was one of a set of six plates sitting on a shelf in AXS Design, a shopwell worth seeking out.

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Pre-existing What?

December 30, 2024

Private health insurance — where it all goes wrong. I return to New York.

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Living in the Future

Jan 10, 2025

It might strike you as a bit rich of me to compare my current situation in Paris to that of the character Frances McDorman plays in Chloe Zhao’s film, “Nomadland, that is to say, “houseless.”

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The Power of Attention

January 17, 2025

I owe the happy conduct of my life as a soloist partially to the internet. I first signed up for an electronic mail account in 1985, when I entered grad school at the University of Toronto. Not many civilians had access to email then.

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Packing Up My Brief Life in Paris

February 14, 2025

If I could have closed the book on my failed attempt to emigrate to France without returning to Paris, I would have done so. Instead, here I am, boxing up the few clothes I left behind, adding to them the few I brought, and filling the now empty space in my suitcase with vinegars, tins of olive oil, a few antique stoneware bowls, and a de Buyer crepe pan.

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Breaking Up Is Hard to Do.

February 28, 2025

You can’t claim to know a country you love until you break up with it or it breaks up with you.

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Letting It Go

March 23, 2025

Every transition in life, like the one I’m in the middle of, comes at a price but also with gains. From Californian condo-owner to failed emigrée to middle class nomad and eventually (I hope) once again a home cook in my own kitchen, the way I see myself has undergone change after change after change over the past 6 months while who I am remains the same.

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On the Road with a Small Dog

April 16, 2025

A few mornings ago, I was making Melissa Clark’s pozole-like soupy stew, a project meant to focus my mind on a Substack post about cooking while traveling. In the background, I heard Billie barking outside in the enclosed space behind my townhouse in Uptown New Orleans.

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Elective Affinities

May 11, 2025

Pope Leo XIV’s family history reminds Americans of what makes New Orleans so special.

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Baldwin and Reading for Love

November 4, 2025

I will give you two reasons to read Nicholas Boggs’s 746-page Baldwin: A Love Story, 620 pages of which constitute the main text. I’m not suggesting the obvious reason, that is, your love of James Baldwin’s writing.

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